The minute she opens her eyes and focuses, the
image of the machine with its lights winking mischievously pushes its way
forcefully into her consciousness. She shudders, half with imagined
exhilaration, half with fear and slides down from the bed onto the floor, on
her knees. “Today, whatever happens, I will not gamble. Please help me God”,
she mutters, eyes fixed on the Crucifix above her bed.
She knows she should keep herself occupied and busies
herself around the house, wiping tables which already gleam, sweeping floors
with not a speck on them, and re-arranging clothes which, since yesterday, have
been fastidiously folded in their drawers or hanging in the wardrobe. She tries
to concentrate on the work, but the attempts to shut out the image of that
mechanical demon with the flickering eyes whirring sweet nothings in her ears
take too much effort and she often finds herself, broom in hand, staring
vacantly in mid-task.
At times the urge to drop everything and fly to
the shop becomes strongly physical, a welling emptiness in her chest, a
thumping in her breast and forehead, and a tantalising tingling in her fingers.
She strides to the phone instead, and calls Anna, like her a recovering
gambler, unlike her able to stay away from the machines for close to four years
now. For thirty minutes she pours out her feelings, her anger at herself, at
the blasted machine, object of her love and hate, and at the damned bastards
who opened the shop round the corner from her house, where nine days before, she
had lost the new-found control over her life.
It had lasted just over three months. When the
gambling parlours had been unexpectedly closed down in the summer of 2009, she
had at first felt strangely elated at the freedom from the shackles of the
compulsion to hit the machines. All of two days later a friend had
whispered in her ear about the ‘amusement’ machines in Cottonera. There, she had gambled whatever she could beg
or borrow.
She had stolen too, first raiding her children’s
bank-accounts from the few thousands their father had left for them before he
moved in with that floosy, loathing herself for doing so more than she hated the
peroxide bitch who
had wrested Mark away from her. She would of course replace the money one day,
she had repeated to herself to mollify her conscience, knowing full well that
would never happen. She had then schemed with a friend to steal handbags from churches,
but had been arrested quite early on in her new career as thief. It would be her
first time ever in court.
The only source of cash left had been Frans, the
local loan-shark, who had kindly procured a couple of thousand Euros for her at
a specially discounted rate of 10% - per month, of course. She now owed him
more than €19,000 and lived in mortal terror of meeting him in the street, or
worse still, of finding him on her doorstep to retrieve “his” money. He would
doubtlessly have creative suggestions about how she could earn enough to pay
him off in a few short months – under his muscularly benevolent protection.
Then in October of last year, a knock did come –
but, when she had opened, it was not Frans is-Sellief’s menacing bulk which met
her terrified glance, but two rather pleasant faces. They introduced themselves
as social workers, and told her quietly and clearly that, unless she sorted
herself out, the children would be taken in care since it was obvious from the
fact that they were acting out at school and at times turning up without
anything to eat, that they were at risk. She realised that all the neighbours
knew about her gambling habit – and word had got through to the school which
had in turn alerted Appoġġ.
The social workers had suggested Gamblers Anonymous
and one evening she made her way to Floriana resigned to spending the next
ninety minutes being preached to about the evils of gambling by condescending
do-gooders. Instead she had been greeted
with unexpected warmth, and was soon listening with rapt
attention to the stories of the other gamblers: familiar tales of deceptive wins
and soaring debts, of lies and betrayal of family members, of suicides contemplated
and attempted.
There were unfamiliar stories too: of courageous
decisions to stop gambling, of the fellowship and camaraderie at Gamblers
Anonymous helping members achieve extraordinary victories over the urge to
gamble, of solemn promises never to approach the machines any more broken before
they were uttered, and of impossibly tangled webs of problems and difficulties gradually
unwoven.
For the next three months she did not set foot in
that dingy Paola parlour, attending meetings, reading the literature and
talking daily on the phone with her new-found friends instead. The children
sensed something was different about her and were becoming less anxious by the
day, as food became less scarce and their mother was no longer preoccupied
solely with acquiring money to play the machines. There were even suggestions
of a new-found self-esteem in their demeanour, as their mother began to care
enough to help them with their school-work.
Then, she discovered that the florist’s round the
corner had, virtually overnight, been transformed into a gambling parlour with
8 shining monsters, their colourful lights seductively signalling their
availability. The knowledge that those machines were there, a mere three
minutes’ walk away, pounded incessantly, obsessively into her thinking and, try
as she might, she could not shake off the urge this triggered. Within two days,
she was gobbling up the machines’
delights, oblivious to all consequences, hitting them with wild abandon and revelling in
the exhiliration only they could
arouse in her.
Only when she had bet her last eurocent could she
drag herself away home to her children agitatedly awaiting her return. The
wild euphoria had given way to a desperate emotional trough as she was
confronted with her frailty when facing the monster. Waves of self-pity swamped
her and horrible thoughts about a final solution to her problems probed her
mind. Providence
intervened in the shape of a phone-call from Anna, her GA sponsor, which helped
her regain enough composure to realise that she owed it to herself and to her children
to try again.
This is where she is now: fearful, tearful and
jittery, veering between uncertain optimism and a dark foreboding. The struggle
within is practically unceasing, the images of the monsters round the corner
beckoning with a force which almost physically threatens to propel her through
the door into their waiting jaws. Except
when she’s on the phone with Anna or her other GA companions, she suffers alone,
wondering whatever possessed the
authorities to subject her and her family to this torture by giving the
go-ahead to the resuscitation of those monsters of doom and destruction.
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